{"id":390,"date":"2020-09-26T10:18:21","date_gmt":"2020-09-26T08:18:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/?p=390"},"modified":"2020-09-26T10:18:21","modified_gmt":"2020-09-26T08:18:21","slug":"prilisna-nezavislost-je-reakci-na-trauma","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/?p=390","title":{"rendered":"P\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e1 nez\u00e1vislost je reakc\u00ed na trauma"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"576\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/wallpapers1-1024x576.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-391\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/wallpapers1-1024x576.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/wallpapers1-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/wallpapers1-768x432.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/wallpapers1-1536x864.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/09\/wallpapers1.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Neschopnost p\u0159ij\u00edmat podporu od druh\u00fdch je reakce na trauma.<br>Tvoje naprogramov\u00e1n\u00ed: \u201eNepot\u0159ebuji nikoho, ud\u011bl\u00e1m si to rad\u011bji s\u00e1m\/ sama\u201c je taktika p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pot\u0159eboval\/a jsi j\u00ed, abyste chr\u00e1nili sv\u00e9 n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 srdce p\u0159ed t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00edm, zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm, zradou a zklam\u00e1n\u00edm od t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed tu pro tebe nemohli b\u00fdt nebo nebyli.<br>Kv\u016fli rodi\u010d\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed nebyli s tebou, z vlastn\u00ed v\u016fle nebo proto, \u017ee museli m\u00edt t\u0159i pracovn\u00ed \u00favazky, aby t\u011b u\u017eivili.<br>Kv\u016fli milenc\u016fm \u010di milenk\u00e1m, kte\u0159\u00ed nab\u00eddli sexu\u00e1ln\u00ed intimitu, ale nenab\u00eddli \u017e\u00e1dn\u00fd bezpe\u010dn\u00fd p\u0159\u00edstav, kter\u00fd ct\u00ed va\u0161e srdce.<br>Kv\u016fli p\u0159\u00e1tel\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u017edy brali v\u00edc, ne\u017e d\u00e1vali.<br>Je reakc\u00ed na v\u0161echny situace, kdy ti n\u011bkdo \u0159ekl &#8222;spolu to zvl\u00e1dnem&#8220; a pak t\u011b opustil, a nechal t\u011b si to vy\u017erat a\u017e do konce, vy\u017erat si tv\u016fj d\u00edl i jeho d\u00edl.<br>Aby t\u011b chr\u00e1nily od l\u017e\u00ed a zrady.<br>B\u011bhem cesty ses nau\u010dil\/a, \u017ee lidem opravdu nem\u016f\u017ee\u0161 d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat. Nebo \u017ee bys mohl\/a v\u011b\u0159it lidem, ale jen do ur\u010dit\u00e9 m\u00edry.<br><br>P\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e1 nez\u00e1vislost je * probl\u00e9m d\u016fv\u011bry *.<br><br>Nau\u010dil\/a ses: pokud se vyhnu situac\u00edm, \u017ee bych se na n\u011bkoho musel\/a spolehnout, nebudu muset b\u00fdt zklaman\u00fd\/\u00e1, kdy\u017e se u m\u011b neobjev\u00ed nebo m\u011b opust\u00ed &#8230; proto\u017ee oni m\u011b v\u017edycky opust\u00ed, \u017ee?<br>Mo\u017en\u00e1 t\u011b dokonce tuto strategii p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed nau\u010dily generace zran\u011bn\u00fdch \u017een a mu\u017e\u016f, kter\u00e9 byly p\u0159ed tebou. <br><br>P\u0159\u00edli\u0161n\u00e1 nez\u00e1vislost je prevenc\u00ed zlomen\u00e9ho srdce.<br><br>A tak nikomu nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u0161.<br><br>A nev\u011b\u0159\u00ed\u0161 ani sob\u011b, \u017ee si um\u00ed\u0161 vybrat koho k sob\u011b pust\u00ed\u0161.<br><br>D\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat, znamen\u00e1 nad\u011bji, d\u016fv\u011b\u0159ovat t\u011b \u010din\u00ed zraniteln\u00fdm\/ou.<br>A tak jsi p\u0159\u00edsahal\/a &#8222;U\u017e nikdy!&#8220;<br><br>Ale&#8230; je jedno, jak si to maluje\u0161, a s jakou hrdost\u00ed tvrd\u00ed\u0161, \u017ee tato p\u0159ehnan\u00e1 nez\u00e1vislost je p\u0159esn\u011b to, co jsi v\u017edycky cht\u011bl\/a. P\u0159iznej si pravdu: je to tv\u00e9 zran\u011bn\u00e9, zjizven\u00e9, zlomen\u00e9 srdce, kter\u00e9 se ukr\u00fdv\u00e1 za tou nedobytnou hradbou.<br><br>Neprostupnou. Nic a nikdo se tam nedostane. \u017d\u00e1dn\u00e9 zran\u011bn\u00ed, \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e9 emoce&#8230; Ale ani \u017e\u00e1dn\u00e1 l\u00e1ska&#8230; Tvrze a brn\u011bn\u00ed jsou pro ty, co jsou ve v\u00e1lce, pro ty, kte\u0159\u00ed v\u011b\u0159\u00ed, \u017ee bitva p\u0159ich\u00e1z\u00ed.<br><br>Je to traumatick\u00e1 reakce.<br><br>Dobr\u00e1 zpr\u00e1va je, \u017ee p\u0159iznan\u00e9 trauma m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt vyl\u00e9\u010deno.<br><br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si podporu.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si za\u017e\u00edt opravdov\u00e9 partnerstv\u00ed.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si l\u00e1sku.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si, aby n\u011bkdo podr\u017eel tvoje srdce.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si b\u00fdt zbo\u017e\u0148ov\u00e1n\/a.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si b\u00fdt opatrov\u00e1n\/a.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si, aby n\u011bkdo \u0159ekl: &#8222;Odpo\u010di\u0148 si, j\u00e1 se o to postar\u00e1m!&#8220; A aby ve skute\u010dnosti dost\u00e1l tomuto slibu.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si p\u0159ij\u00edmat.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si p\u0159ij\u00edmat.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si p\u0159ij\u00edmat.<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161 si to!<br>Zaslou\u017e\u00ed\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Jednodu\u0161e proto, \u017ee existuje\u0161.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Zdroj: Jamilla White &#8211; www.inspiredjamilla.com<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Neschopnost p\u0159ij\u00edmat podporu od druh\u00fdch je reakce na trauma.Tvoje naprogramov\u00e1n\u00ed: \u201eNepot\u0159ebuji nikoho, ud\u011bl\u00e1m si to rad\u011bji s\u00e1m\/ sama\u201c je taktika p\u0159e\u017eit\u00ed. Pot\u0159eboval\/a jsi j\u00ed, abyste chr\u00e1nili sv\u00e9 n\u011b\u017en\u00e9 srdce p\u0159ed t\u00fdr\u00e1n\u00edm, zanedb\u00e1v\u00e1n\u00edm, zradou a zklam\u00e1n\u00edm od t\u011bch, kte\u0159\u00ed tu pro tebe nemohli b\u00fdt nebo nebyli.Kv\u016fli rodi\u010d\u016fm, kte\u0159\u00ed nebyli s tebou, z vlastn\u00ed v\u016fle nebo proto, [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":391,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[27,9,26,44,25,24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-390","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-deti","category-detske-zdravi","category-muz","category-trauma","category-zena","category-zenske-zdravi"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/390","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=390"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/390\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":392,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/390\/revisions\/392"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/391"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=390"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=390"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kliczdravi.eu\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=390"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}